Ibtedai mubashrat k masail






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Ibtedai mubashrat k masail


Ibtedai mubashrat k masail:

jab shadi qareeb ati hai tou kai nojwan khof se larzne lagte hain q k un ko ye btaya gya hota hai k muth marne se jinsi kaar kardagi mutasir hoti hai.aksar nojwan chu-k muth maar chukey hote hain.is lye ab wo ye smjhte hain k ab wo is qabil nhi hain k shadi shudah zindagi guzar skain.in ka khyal hota hai ab in ka raaz faash ho jai ga aur us ki be-izati ho jai ge.jab bv ko pta chale ga k wo jinsi tor par na-mukammal hain--chuna-chey is khof ki wja se shadi aik zahmat bn jati hai.nojwano ko ye itmenaan dilane ki zrurat hai musht zani se kisi qism ki jinsi ya jismani kamzori paida nhi hoti aur us barey main kisi trah k khof ki zrurat nhi hai.kuch log aise bhi hote hain k apna imtehan lene k lye kisi twaif k paas chale jate hain.wahan ka tajurba aksar oqat in k lye mazeed nakami ka sabab bnta hai.q k shidat jazbat main pahli dfa jab wo kisi aurat k paas jate hain tou ya jaldi inzal ho jata hai ya khof-o-haras aur ahsaas gunah k zery asar uzw main sakhti he nhi ati.is se in ka khof aur zyadah shadeed ho jata hai aur ye khyal mazeed pukhta ho jata hai k jinsi tor par wo bilkul nakarah hain aur muth marne ki harkat ne in ko tabah kr dya hai islye nojwano k lye bahtar ye hai k wo is trah ki koi harkat na krain.is trah gunah bhi ho ga aur is kaifiyat main jinsi failyati rubah amal bhi na ske ge aur wo is trah galat nataij akhaz kr lain gaye aur apne apko mazeed preshani main mubtala kr lain gaye.

agar in ko sahat mand aeza ki sakht ka ilm aur musht zani k barey main ye yaqeen ho k ye kisi surat muzar nhi hai aur agar musht zani main inzal jaldi ya dair se ho tab b is se jinsi kaar kardagi mutasir nhi hoti aur ye bhi maloom ho k uzw main itni sakhti hoti hai k jitni aik gubarey main paani bharne se hoti hai tou galban phr wo shadi se itne khofzadah nhi ho gaye.q k jab khof zahan main le kar aik nojwan bv k pas jata hai tou is ki jinsi kaar kardgi zrur mutasir hoti hai aus us main jinsi kaifiyat paida nhi hoti.na uzw main sakhti ati hai aur na wo jinsi tor par kamyab hota hai.jaisa k hum ne pahley kha hai k aurat ki jai makhsoos(Vagina) itni lachakdar hoti hai us main se pura bacha nikal jata hai.uzw bhi gosht ka bna hota hai us main sakhti khoon bharne se hoti hai us k lye sakhti bhi lakri ya lohey ki trah mumkin nhi aur na he uski zrurat hai.

agar insan apni bv k paas khof se azad ho kar jai tou fitri tor par pyar-o-muhabbat aur jinsi haijan ki aisi kaifiyat ho ge k us k uzw main sakhti bhi ay ge aur wo mubashrat bhi kre ga.albattah agar us par khof-o-haraas aur preshani ki kaifiyat tari ho ge aur wo shaoori tor par uzw main sakhti ki koshish kre ga ta k jaldi mubashrat krle aur us k zahan main apna imtehan lene ka khyal ho ga tou bohat mumkin hai k ye cheezain ulta asar krain aur sakhti bhi na ye aur wo mubashrat na kr ske.

waise bhi hamarey mahol main miya bv ki mubashrat k barey main na-tajarba kari hoti hai.is main is lye kuch diqatain paish ati hain.is k ilavah hamari khwateen bhi is amal se bohat sharmati hain.is lye ibtedai aik do hafto main mubashrat main diqat hoti hai.agar is arsey main mubashrat na ho tou miya bv dono ko is barey main preshan nhi hona chiye.shru main itna wqt lag he jata hai.

agar ibtedai aik do hafto main khaizish na aye ya jaldi inzal ho jai ya bv puri trah tyar na ho tou miya bv dono ko sabar se kaam lena chiye.aur us se ye natijaa akahaz kr lena chiye k shareek hayat bemar hai ya nakarah.bal-k pyar aur muhabbat azdawaji zindagi ka agaz krna chiye aur mubashrat ko gair mamooli ahmiyat nhi deni chiye bal k bahimi taluqat main muhabbat ko zyadah ahmiyat deni chiye.

shru shru sakhti na ana aik adh dfa dakhool se pahley inzal ho jana ya bv ka tyar hona ya us ko bohat zyadah takleef hona koi aisi kaifiyat nhi hai k jis ko jinsi bemari ka naam dya jai ya jinsi kamzori ki alamat qraar dya jai.ye isi trah hai jaise kisi ko aik do dfa khansi ho jai tou hum foran  he is natije par nhi pohnch jain gaye k is ko tap diq ya phaiphro ka sirtan hai.isi trah agar shru main jinsi kaar-gardgi mutasir ho jai tou aik dam is natijey par nhi pohnch jana chiye k bv ya shohar jinsi tor par nakarah hai.

jinsi failyati k lye ye tasur bohat jaldi le lya jata hai k shohar ya bv jinsi tor par bemar hai aur jinsi bemari k barey main ye khyal kr lya jata hai k wo la-ilaj hai..dar haqeqat ye dono batain galat hain is barey main sabr-o-tahamul se kaam lena chiye.chun-k is trah k galat khayalat miya bv dono k zahan main hote hain is lye bohat c shadyan nakaam ho jati hain.

is trah shoharo ko bhi maloom hona chiye k hamarey muashrey main larkyo ki tarbiyat aisi hoti hai k inhen jins aur shadi k barey main maloomat se bil-kul be-bahra rakha jata hai.aur is amal se aik qism ki nafrat delai jati hai.aur un k zahan main mubshrat se khof hota hai.is lye in ko mubashrat k lye amadah krne k lye pyar aur muhabbat aur sabar se kam lena chiye.bvyo ko ye bhi maloom hona chiye k mubashrat na sirf aik ibadat hai bal k miya bv dono k lye pur lutf bhi hai.

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